Although there are apparently no muslims in our movement, our ranks are generously sprinkled with Christian MRAs. I am not simply talking about MRAs who happen to be Christians, but those whose Christianity is an essential feature of their opposition to modern feminism. Here, I’m going to briefly explore two questions that spring to mind from this fact. Is Christian anti-feminism different from secular anti-feminism? And if so, do the two strands have sufficiant goals in common to make fighting under a common banner worthwhile?
Patriarchy
Christian anti-feminists tend to see the ‘patrarchy’ that existed for most of history as an essentially good thing.
Those of us who are aetheists, on the other hand, tend to dispute the notion of patriarchy altogether, and point to the disadvantages suffered by men in the past, disadvantages that were often justified by a religious morality or social system.
Differences between men and women
Christian MRAs usually hold (as the bible teaches) that men and women are fundamentally different. Secular MRAs also often hold (as an intelligent understanding of Darwinism implies) that men and women are likely to be fundamentally different. However, there are many MRAs who insist that there are no differences between men and women and that men’s rights is purely about treating men and women equally. Other secular MRAs (such as myself) might concur that this is a noble goal but believing that there are fundamental differences, doubt that this might ever be achievable in reality.
Sexual Morality
Christian MRAs also tend to see the free sexual market as an evil thing. They would like to see an end to, or at least much tighter regulation of, porn, prostitution, and pre-marital sex. Furthermore, they often identify the creation of the free sexual market as being essential to the feminist rise to power.
Secular MRAs tend to take a more liberal view of sexual matters. In fact, the clear (to us) feminist opposition to such things as porn and prostitution is what inspires many to resent feminism. Or, more widely, secular MRAs see the harm done to both men, young boys and society in the feminist portrayal of the male gender as rapists, paedophiles, predators etc alongside the near sanctification of the female as the perpetual innocent sexual victim.
It isn’t for me to tell secular members of the Men’s Movement what position to take on matters of sex. I have seen some aetheist MRAs, such as ArgusEyes describe themselves as conservatives and appear to take quite a conservative view of sexual morality. For me, this appears to wrongly identify conservatism with sexual conservatism. I have often described myself as a conservative, but for me, this means seeing through the bullshit faith of the left regarding the power of the state to mould human beings into it’s own image. ‘Secular Conservatism’, if you like, accepts that human beings are animals with fundamental natures and instincts - that men and women are likely to be psychologically different in important ways. A secular conservative and MRA would not necessarily see ‘liberal’ sexual morality as inherently bad. Stripped from it’s religious connotations, and in an age of freely available contraception, sex should ideally be a physical pleasure, even a leisure pursuit. In the real world, of course, unchecked sexual libertarianism will inevitably have many negative effects. In the free sexual market of today, we see this with single mothers, climbing abortion rates, broken families, lonely black females filling the pages of the personals columns, white teenage boys comitting suicide because they cannot ‘measure up’. However, for the secular conservative, re-imposing a religious sexual morality should not be the answer. Talking about sex rationally and without prejudice or political correctness, would be the beginning of a solution.
Can secular and Christian anti-feminists work together?
Both strands of the men’s rights movement can and, indeed, clearly do work together successfully in exposing feminist lies and feminist injustices imposed upon men. May this continue. Realistically, however, the final vision of society that both camps want is probably too far apart to ever be reconcilable. This being said, as we all know only too well, we are still so far removed from our respective goals, we ought to concentrate on taking aim at feminists, and save taking aim at each other for another day.
Yet to finish this post, the following simply must be stated. The belief of Christian MRAs that feminists promote porn, prostitution and general ‘harlotry’ (in their own words) is simply absurd. Furthermore, criminilizing the majority of the male population and locking tens of thousands more men up as subhuman animals for clicking a mouse has NOTHING to do with men’s rights. Telling teenage boys that they will burn in hell for eternity for masturbating has NOTHING to do with men’s rights. Furthermore, feeding the flames of pedohysteria and the demonization of men (and the erosion of the basis of every civilised society) because you want absolute control over your teenage daughter’s virginity has NOTHING to do with men’s rights… OR conservatism.